After the seminal publication of “The principles for family-centered neonatal care” in Pediatrics in 1993 [1], a large wave of interest developed in doing better by babies and families in the neonatal intensive care units (NICUs) across North America. This interest was not only by parents, parent and patient advocates, and non-professionals in and out of healthcare, but by interdisciplinary clinicians as well. Psychologists, nurses, neonatologists, and pediatricians all began to study and implement means by which care could be more patient and family-centered in its development and delivery [2, 3]. Observations were made of how pediatric resident experiences might improve in the NICU [4] and even how parents of newborns on extreme life-support measures like ECMO (extra-corporeal membrane oxygenation) could add to the conversations [5].

In time, as NICUs across North America aged and new NICUs were being planned and built, the very design of the physical spaces in the NICU accommodated family presence and engagement better than any time in history [6, 7]. FCC became the norm, the expectation, and the focus of many clinician-parent collaborations broadly within children’s hospitals as well as in the NICU. Adult hospitals mirrored the work done first in pediatric centers [8]. Now, there is additional importance of parental involvement in the NICU, underscored by a consideration of renaming the NICU to the neonatal intensive parenting unit, to highlight the involvement of the family and emphasize the necessity of bonding and attachment between the parents and the newborn [9].

Then came a pandemic, or two. In 2003, there were restrictions placed on family presence at the bedside of their loved one during the SARS-1 pandemic [10]. At that time, issues of social isolation—felt by patients, parents, and clinicians—were described in situations where concerns for infection control prevailed over facilitating FCC. These same situations brought with them considerable emotions that challenged and even changed professional and parental roles. Communication was difficult. And investigators noted that “…effective clinical approaches…” should be developed “…in the event of future outbreaks…” [10]. The H1N1 pandemic of 2009 was such an anticipated event, but it did not substantively materialize in North America.

Now, in 2021, we contend with COVID-19, the ongoing pandemic illness caused by the SARS-CoV2 virus. Almost overnight, units of care in pediatric and adult hospitals closed to family and visitors in the spring of 2020. While families may not have become “visitors” in the strictest sense, a general perception by many NICU staff and parents has been that even parents of critically ill or preterm newborns, were subjected to “visitor policies”. This occurred for all stages of care—on admission, while on critical life-supporting technologies, and even when dying. While NICUs and children’s hospitals have not been overwhelmed with neonatal and pediatric cases of COVID-19, the staff have nonetheless had to struggle with several moral and ethical issues [11].

Clinical staff in NICUs are distraught, disillusioned, and have been experiencing moral distress. Given a quarter century history of developing and knowing what “was right”, and what has been enculturated in the NICU and across children’s hospitals, they can see how current constraints by infection control and “visitation” policies that have been promoted in efforts to mitigate, if not absolutely prevent, infection among NICU staff or patients keep them from providing the care they believe is best for babies and families in both the short and the long-term. While speaking from an adult hospital perspective, Morley et al. relate a number of contributors to moral distress among staff at this time including a lack of personal protective equipment (PPE), visitation restrictions, impaired communication, and relational capacity between staff and patients/families, risks to their own personal and family safety, contending with scarce resource allocation, and some reduction in the overall level of care provided amidst the pandemic [12]. Virani et al. utilize three pediatric cases (one being a newborn) to elicit responses from a diverse group of pediatric clinicians and ethicists [13]. Haward enjoins other neonatology and ethics colleagues in describing not only the moral, ethical and emotional toll that this pandemic and healthcare organizations’ responses have taken on vulnerable patients, their families, and staff, but offer different suggestions to guide leadership in ways forward [14].

Borrowing from a model used by Raman et al. in their report on a child rights-based response to COVID-19 [15], the following figure is offered to help us organize our thoughts around pertinent clinical, environmental, ethical, and sociocultural responses to challenges brought forth by the pandemic as we attempt to regain what has been lost in FCC care these past few months [Fig. 1].

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Family-centered care determinants in COVID-19 times.

As the pandemic continues, there will be vacillations in efforts to contain the spread of infection and mitigate disease largely based upon epidemiologic data within geographic regions, states, and cities. This will involve ongoing surveillance, testing, rigorous hygienic practices, the wearing of masks, social distancing, concerted efforts within hospitals to wear and utilize PPE and isolate infected patients. Hospitals, and individual units of care within them such as the NICU, will need to strike a balance between the increasingly understood risks of spread and the less clear but nonetheless important risks that minimal contact of newborns with their parents will have on both infant adaptation, bonding and development, and parental growth and development. [Textbox].

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FCC is a valuable philosophy and practice to keep in the forefront of leadership, management, and clinician’s minds, especially in the high-stress and intense setting of the NICU. Given the numerous societal stressors our nation is currently undergoing, this is truer now than ever before. For various reasons families, NICU staff, and even babies are overwhelmed. Despite COVID-19, the principles of FCC, established in 1993, are still important to carry out in 2021. Families need their babies and babies need their families, and it is the responsibility of hospital systems to ensure this can continue to be supported in the safest manner possible. To do this, we must continue to consider the many clinical, environmental, ethical, and sociocultural determinants that impact care and affect the family unit.